I remember thinking when I heard about JFK Jr. crashing his
plane ”why do people think lawyers can fly?” It was sad, because he was
young, and two other people died along with him. But it wasn’t that
surprising to me, because he was a lawyer. He was a hobby pilot at best,
and frankly, I don’t think it’s a good idea to go flying with hobby
pilots. If you want to fly, get an expert pilot to fly the plane.
I hold the same opinion when it comes to changing body composition.
When I need to change something about the way my body looks; I ask an
expert for their advice. I then follow their advice until I look the way
I want to, or I realize that their advice doesn’t apply to me. It’s
pretty simple. If I don’t look the way I want to it is because I don’t
know how to make myself look that way. If I did know I would be doing
what I needed to make it happen.
When I was a trainer at GoodLife it became obvious that almost
everyone THINKS they know how to eat in order to change the way they
look IN SPITE of the fact that they don’t already look the way they want
to. When I asked them why they hadn’t achieved their fitness goals yet,
their answers were all basically the same – it was due to a lack of
effort and not a lack of knowledge. Hearing these excuses day in and day
out was the main reason I made the decision to stop training people,
and focus most of my energies on my own fitness and health related
goals.
I give a lot of nutrition presentations to parents of young athletes,
and I find it remarkable that so many sceptical people trust their
children’s training to us, but don’t believe me when I offer them
guidance concerning optimal nutrition for athletes. Sure there are some
who agree with everything I say, and there are others who agree, but
admit that it’s difficult and expensive to eat that way. But I’m baffled
by the people who continue to tell me that fat is bad; that human
beings need lots of grain; that too much protein will destroy the
kidneys, and that supplements shouldn’t be given to young people. When I
ask them how they know these things; they say that they don’t know how
they know; they just know that they know. I don’t try to convince them,
because my role is to educate, and people can only be educated when they
are open to new information.
I try to win them over by saying that what they have been doing is
not bad or dangerous because they are still alive. I suggest that it is
just not optimal. I inject some science into what has traditionally been
taught by parents. Serving size and food choices are perfect examples
of this – we tend to eat the same foods and similar amounts of food that
our parents feed us. In talking to these people, I try to make them
doubt the scientific basis of their knowledge in an attempt to get them
to open their minds a little. Over time, some of what I say may get in
and make a difference at a later date – an approach that has worked with
a number of my peers and clients. Those who are receptive to what I say
begin to make the changes they have always wanted while those who
remain sceptical tend to remain on the same path they have been on most
of their lives.
I do consider myself an expert on nutrition; at least as it applies
to body composition, because I have done everything that I recommend. I
have also been a heavy guy who needed to learn the right way to eat,
because my food choices were making me fat. It took a long time to
figure it out, but once I did, I was able to bring about the changes I
needed in order to improve the quality of my life, and to make my body
look the way I had always wanted it to. But I only gained my knowledge
because I remained open to what experts had to say about nutrition, and
the results came only because I listened to their advice.
If you want to change the way you look, chances are that you are not
an expert. Your first step is to accept that you don’t know how to make
it happen. Your second step is to find someone who does know. And your
final step is to follow their advice COMPLETELY. It’s very simple, the
best people get the best results EVERY TIME.